The loss of a pet is as devastating to most people as the loss of any other loved one or dear friend. You shouldn't feel ashamed or embarrassed to be grieving.
The "Good Death"
Our pet's deaths are often made even more difficult by the stress of being in the position to decide when and how they should go.
Deciding whether or not to euthanize is a very difficult and personal decision. The vets I have talked to all seem to think it is a humane option and a blessing to be able to offer it to our pets. You may need to base your decision on what is what is best for you and your family as well as what's best for the animal.
Goodbye Never Easy
Even when your dog or cat dies a natural death, either from illness or just "old age", saying good-bye to your best friend is hard.
We never forget our furry companions, and we will always think of and miss them.
You Don't Have to do it Alone
If you are having trouble making or dealing with your decision, there are support groups and books available to help you. For a partial list of support groups in your area, check out Petloss.com.
A number of books are available to help you and your family deal with this event.
Burial Choices
There are still other decisions to be made after the death of a pet, or in preparation for. Will you choose burial, cremation, or leave your pet at the veterinarians office? If burial, will it be at home or at a pet cemetery?
Talk to your vet about the options in your area. Petloss.com also lists pet cemeteries and crematories in most areas.
Remembering Your Pet
You may wish to hold a special service for the animal, especially if there are children involved. Consider lighting a candle, creating a memorial, or making a donation in your pet's name.
Frame a favorite picture, or make a collage representing everyone's favorite memories of the pet.
We always save something that reminds of a pet: their collar, favorite toy; you can even keep a bit of their hair.
Every Animal Unique
Eventually you may wish to adopt another dog or cat. When doing so, remember that no matter how similiar one might be in looks, no other dog or cat will be quite like the one you lost.
If you go looking for a "replacement" for your dear departed animal, you may be in for disappointment. Some people are cloning their animals, but the offspring will reflect the parent in appearance only.
